Maybe you’ve noticed that the Sacramento News & Review has begun a new, regular page called “Higher Ground”, which features interviews with three faith community leaders each week.  The editors ask tough, real-life questions about ethical issues, and the religious “experts” offer opinions that the Review prints.  I really appreciate this community service, and effort to make inside-the-church thinking and culture more accessible to the wider community. 


I participated in one of the first weeks of this series, and the question the Review chose to publish our answers to was, “What advice would you give President Bush on the war in Iraq?”…so you can see, they’re not just letting the clergy participants off easy.  (You can find this interview in the June 28 issue of SN&R).  The later installments of this series have included equally thorny issues.  But the underlying editorial tone accompanying a number of these pieces has been that we clergy are sometimes reluctant to express strong opinions or positions that express a solid moral compass.  And if I’m reading that tone correctly, I think it’s fair criticism.  Because the Church has so long been associated with judgment and condemnation, many of the clergy I know (and I include myself in this statement) are reluctant to say anything that might sound judgmental or offensive. 


James Forbes, the recently-retired Senior Minister from Riverside Church in New York City, recently spoke to pastors at a conference in Nashville, Tennessee.  He asked them to turn to the people sitting next to them and to talk for a few minutes about what they believed God was mad about in our world.  I wasn’t there, but I have read that the auditorium was thunderous for several minutes; no one there had any trouble thinking of things that God might be unhappy with in our world.  When the audience’s attention was called back to the front, Forbes asked “Then why aren’t you talking with your congregations about those things?” 


And his assumption is right.  Mostly we don’t talk in the Church about even the things that we’re sure are making God furious, or are breaking God’s heart, because they’re things we know people in our congregations have different opinions about.  And the truth is, we clergy are often more worried about offending people than we are about disappointing God. 


Learning to talk with one another about the things we feel deeply and differently about, without breaking our relationships, would be a very good thing.  But it will take practice, which—by definition—includes lots of mistakes, lots of stepping on one another’s toes, lots of effort, and lots of forgiveness. 


But wouldn’t it be good to be able to talk honestly about the things that we think are breaking God’s heart? 

 

Definition of judgment & judge

Per our "Come & See" discussions regarding judgement and this blog, I've included some definitions, etc... It does convey that judging requires a bit of "authority." On all that we place judgments on in our lives do we really have the authority and experiences to make such calls?? Or is it all just our personal opinion? Where do we draw those lines when in comes to religion and our own faith? Judgment Merriam-Webster Dictionary (1989 edition) 1. a decision or opinion given after judging – a formal decision given by a court. 2. the final judging of mankind by God. 3. the process of forming an opinion by discerning and comparing. 4. the capacity for judging – discernment. Judge (1) – 1. to form an authoritative opinion. 2. to decide as a judge. 3. to form an estimate or evaluation about something. Judge (2) – 1. a public official authorized to decide questions brought before a court. 2. umpire. 3. one who gives an authoritative opinion. Judgment Day – The day of the final judging of all human beings by God Merriam-Webster Thesaurus (1989 edition) Syn 1 - Inference Rel - Decision, determination, ruling, belief, conviction, opinion, persuasion, view Syn 2 - Estimation Syn 3 - Sense Rel - Astuteness, perspicacity, sagacity, shrewdness, acumen, discernment, insight, penetration Luana :)

talking to each other

It isn't only clergy who can be more afraid of offending people than disappointing God; I think this is probably a very common state of being for Christians, perhaps especially those on the liberal end of the spectrum. We think we're being appropriately meek and mild by not rocking the boat...but the boat needs at least a little rocking if we are to offer a safe place for meaningful conversation. Making fear of offense (or of anything, really) our basis for behavior hamstrings us and short-changes God. God is big enough to handle disagreement among his children; the question is whether we trust that grace enough to speak our truth, to hear someone else's different truth, and to know that the disparity can enhance, rather than diminish, us if we let it.

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